Renewal

I made a deal with my twelve-year-old for this morning. If he accompanied me to the Department of Motor Vehicles to renew my driver's license when they opened at 8:30, we'd go to the middle school afterwards so he could "walk through" his schedule to get ready for the opening of school next Tuesday.

So off we went to the DMV in Bethpage. Stood on a line of about 20 people (which split into two windows) to handle license applications and renewals. At the window, the very cheerful and friendly woman (really!) asked me to provide my signature (which would be scanned for the license) and took my photo (which had not been updated in about 12 years). She told me that the picture came out good; let's see what I think when the license is sent to me! After about one minute we were done, and we got to go sit in a row of pews and wait for our number to come up on the big tote board.

At one point, F023 (three numbers before ours) came up for two windows at the same time, and then repeated three times on the tote board. An obvious computer glitch. My son, who expects unfailing wizardry with anything involving computers, announced, "This computer system sucks." I tried to explain to him how it used to be to go to DMV when I first got my learner's permit, 30 years ago, before any of the customer service was computerized. This is the stuff that nightmares are made of.

You had to show up at the huge building on Privado Road in Westbury, suffering through the local traffic to get near the place, and then circling around to find parking. The first prayer of the day was that you would later recall where you'd left the car. Entering the building with the rest of the sheep, you had to stand on Line 27 for at least three hours no matter what your transaction was. Once you'd survived that experience, you were physically and emotionally drained of whatever energy you'd had for the entire day. People weren't overly cooperative, and it was accepted that it was a necessary evil one had to endure to obtain or renew a license, register or surrender plates, etc. Any other Nassau County old timers recall this drudgery?

When our number came up on the big tote board, we went up to the counter and I had to take the eye test. Son found this amusing, and he did it too (which in turn amused the lady behind the counter). Son had to make sure that my receipt showed "Corrective Lenses Required" just to yank my chain and remind me that my distance vision has deteriorated in my old age. To further underscore the point, the charming lady admired my specs and asked me whether they were progressives (they aren't, but my ophthalmologist keeps threatening this for next year). All told, we were there for about an hour, which was pretty good according to me. Left plenty of time to truck around the school before I had to collect my personal belongings and head on in to work for a late shift. My son's parting shot as we left the DMV was that he'd show up here again in four years when it was time for him to get his learner's permit. Yikes!

How the Other Half Lives

My husband took two weeks of vacation time (one week saved from last year) so he could chill after we got back from Florida. Fair enough. So he has been hanging with the boys the rest of this week while I go to work. It's strangely wonderful to wake up in the morning and worry only about myself and what I have to do that day.

Normally I have to make sure the Amigos are out of bed and start their day, and I have to take at least one of them with me as I go out the door (and make sure that we leave on time so I can get to work at a reasonable hour). That usually entails getting up no later than 5:30, showering, eating breakfast, getting myself ready, and then working on the kids. This week, I didn't have to wake up until at least 6:00 or 6:30 in order to leave the house by 7:30. Also, I was able to take care of organizing some back to school paperwork and straightening up the kitchen, with the knowledge that I was only playing beat the clock with myself. This morning, I left at 6:40 so I could get to work early. Still, a 5:30 wakeup left plenty of time.

Too bad the week's almost over! Waaah!

Traveling Three Ring Circus

So we survived the family road trip to Florida. Hurrah for us! Here are my observations and lessons learned.

• Having extra leg room (e.g. seven passenger van with only five people in it) really helps!
• Taking an empty suitcase or large duffel for souvenirs would have helped.
• Next time we stay overnight in the middle of a long drive, we're taking one change of clothes for everyone, plus toiletries, and putting it in one duffel bag...so all the suitcases don't have to come out of the car at the hotel. I thought of this on the way back home, and it made the hotel experience much easier.
• Having a variety of snacks, plus a case of water, was great.
• Having trash bags for empty snack packs and water bottles was nice.
• Having a power adaptor (electrical plug to car socket) was a plus.
• Having a vehicle with three (!) sockets was very nice: one for the GPS and two for the DVD players and the electronic games.
• Having a printout of Google Maps directions was helpful. It gave us the courage to ignore the GPS when it started telling us to do crazy things that didn't make sense.
• Giving the GPS a cute nickname increases the entertainment factor. We all had a good laugh when our youngest would yell out, "Be quiet, Bertha!"
• Every time we hit a different state, we took a potty break at the welcome center. The kids had a ball picking out road maps and brochures.
• It helps if at least one person in the car is silly enough to come up with creative modifications of place names on the road signs. For instance, in North Carolina...Fayetteville became Fajitaville. (OK I think that being hungry had something to do with it!)

Hope your road trips and summer vacations have all been grand!

Driving Ms. Crazy

We're collecting our thoughts, and our belongings, to drive to Florida to visit my father-in-law and his wife. Don't even THINK about ransacking the house while we're away because we have something much better than a guard dog: my mother. If you're not familiar with the chronicles of my childhood, you're just going to have to trust me.

When I double checked my "car list" with hubby, he said that it sounded like I was going overboard and that we weren't going on maneuvers fercryinoutloud. Well, I thought I was being thorough. And we rented a mini van for the trip so the kids could spread out, so we do have plenty of room inside the passenger part of the car. Is this really excessive?

• EZ-Pass (which alas, is not honored all the way to Florida)
• dollar bills, quarters, dimes, and nickels to make exact change for tolls (I have my brother to thank for that suggestion)
• portable GPS
• tissues, paper towels, wet wipes, car trash bags
• umbrellas for those rapid fire summer Southern rain storms
• two DVD players, chargers, DVDs, CDs
• a case of water bottles and a cooler bag full of snacks
• hubby's insulin kit
• a backpack of "entertainment items" for each kid
• mom's crocheting bag which will have a few books thrown in too (for when hubby is driving)

The Three Amigos have never done a road trip anywhere near this long. Wish me luck!

Eat Yer Veggies

Today I attended an info session at work about a new feature in our database. It was supposed to be held from 11:30 to 12:15. Starting at a few minutes to twelve, my stomach growled softly. My fault for eating breakfast at 5:30, eh? So at 12:15 I went to grab my lunch, nuked it, and brought it to the conference room to eat it while the meeting was still going on. Good thing, since it didn't end until 12:35 and I would've been completely famished by then.

Two of my buddies scolded me as we were all leaving the meeting, as they were enthralled by the smell of my food. I had the leftover veggies from last night's dinner: a large sized Tupperware full of spaghetti squash. I guess it was the way I'd seasoned it: lots of garlic, some black pepper, a handful of grated cheese, and a small amount of margarine. Yup, it was the garlic.

I laughed at the thought of other people coveting my lunch because I sometimes have to resort to threats to get the kids to eat spaghetti squash. Regular spaghetti? No problem. Even whole wheat spaghetti is fine since they're used to that by now. I've even tried mixing real spaghetti with spaghetti squash. That really made them mad! Something about the consistency of the squash strings that puts them off. Oh well. I enjoyed it!

Who Dat?

This morning, I cooked a pot of rice mixed with quinoa and two kinds of chicken sausage, for tonight's dinner. Son #1 has "mini band camp" from 6 to 9 at the high school, and I have to go hand in a bunch of paperwork there as well. At least he'll get to eat real food before I dash home from work to grab him and take him over there, and the rest of the troops will eat real food. Tomorrow night and Thursday are a question mark right now.

After I ate my breakfast, finished cooking, and left everything on the stove top to cool, I took my crocheting bag to relax for a little while. After I looked at News 12 weather, I flipped through the movie channels. Finding "So I Married an Axe Murderer" I smiled and started watching it midway through. I love these screwball comedies, and I enjoyed the casting. Nancy Travis is the cute widow who unbeknownst to Mike Myers is covering up the trail of husbands that her mentally ill sister (Amanda Plummer) has offed. The prospective groom instead suspects that his bride to be is the murderess, and it goes on from there. Great cameo by Steven Wright as a rather unconventional airline pilot.

Anyhow, Son #2 wakes up and comes in to join me while I'm watching. He asks what's on the TV so I tell him...and uncover just enough of the plot to pique his interest. We come to the wedding scene, with the groom's family in full Scottish garb. My son's incredulous reaction: "She's marrying Austin Powers?!?"